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Post by ema2two on Jul 19, 2005 21:48:30 GMT -5
We all know that when you move in to maintenance the compliments about your weight loss stop, because your weight loss stops.
I just have to share that today, I got one of those rare compliments.
It was a scorching hot day and after being stuck in the subway station for over 30 minutes was late to pick up my son for a doctor's appointment for which we usually allow 2 hours travel time (from Brooklyn into Manhattan by public transportation, with a cushion of time for the unexpected which you can expect to occur with kids, and a snack for a tired 8 year old). Not my finest moment. I had dressed in the morning in one of my new purchases from the Talbot's outlet I happened upon unexpectedly last week. It is a lightweight denim shirtwaist dress with a matching denim double-O ring belt. Buttons down the front from collar to hem and is just below the knee length. I must say, I felt pretty put together when I saw myself in it this morning, despite no make up, no accessories but the belt that came with it and no jewlery. And my hair tucked in a scarf. A tribute to the dress that I could feel 'put together' despite all those negatives.
So I arrive tardy, hot, tired and frazzled. As I'm signing DS out in the office, one of the camp staff says to me "You know, you've really done an amazing job keeping your weight off. You just look great!"
I thanked her for the compliment and said that it was worth the effort to keep it off.
I can't tell you how much that compliment meant to me.
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Post by sarpon on Jul 20, 2005 8:22:56 GMT -5
One of the perks of having people who knew you when, right?
There's a woman in my meeting who lost a very large amount, probably close to 100 pounds, and she's kept it off for several years. I was looking at her last week and thinking that other people who had never seen her before would probably think she'd always been thin. I think I'll tell her so this week -- she'd probably like to hear that.
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Post by ema2two on Jul 20, 2005 21:17:25 GMT -5
I must say, I've gone from being ashamed of ever having had nearly 100 lbs to lose to enjoying the shock value when I tell people who didn't know me then that I lost nearly 100 lbs 3 years ago. It's still an adjustment for me to realize that people who meet me now just assume I've always been thin. I'm busy adjusting to the fact that people consider me thin now. I don't even see myself as thin. I just see myself as no longer fat.
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Post by mylikeit on Jul 21, 2005 0:49:13 GMT -5
I don't even see myself as thin. I just see myself as no longer fat. Ema, I relate to this! Recently a very nice person (who knows I've lost 40 lbs) described me as "tiny," and I am still reeling from this compliment. I truly just think of myself as "no longer fat." For someone to describe me as tiny elicits this cognitive "disconnect." I know she's describing me as she sees me, so I have to try to accept that I really am a slim person now! Congratulations on this very nice compliment. You deserve buckets of them for your amazing work!
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